My mother was engaged to someone else before she married my dad. Her parents even got her silver engraved with his last initial. Then she married my dad.

I always wondered why our family silver had a V on it. She took that secret to her grave. We found an engagement notice and some photos, but never learned anything else about him.

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My cousins lived with us for a while, and we thought that was fun because it was like a sleepover every day. One time, our mom even took us out of school to pick them up.

I learned later that it was because Child Protective Services took my cousins away from their mom due to mental health issues. My mom offered to take her sister’s kids until she got her mental health back in order.

My cousins live with their mom now, and she is in a much better condition mentally.

Story 5: 

My grandmother ran off and had an aff:air, got pregnant, came back to my grandfather, and they raised the baby girl together. My father and his siblings didn’t find out until they were older.

I’m not sure if my aunt knew the truth before she passed away. It’s also rumored that there’s another half-sibling somewhere out there, so Granddad seemed to be having an affair as well.

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As I was cleaning out my dad’s house after his passing, I found letters that my mom and dad wrote to each other around the time they divorced in the early 2000s, as well as a handful of their diary entries. I had always suspected that my mom cheated on my dad with my best friend’s dad, which effectively ended my first friendship, but those letters confirmed it.

However, I didn’t know the full extent of what else my mom had done. She sabotaged him by draining their joint bank accounts, racking up tens of thousands in credit card debt, kicking him out of his house, and getting him fired from his job, eventually forcing him into retirement. With him unemployed, he couldn’t afford to pay child support, leaving only my mom’s income.

It’s pretty telling that my dad never spoke ill of her—he just said that he was blindsided and confused by her choices and jealous of her current partner. On the other hand, my mom only ever said negative things about him, and when she was angry with me, she would compare me to him.

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When I was a kid, my dad would go out for dinner every Friday with another family. It was explained to me that this was his mistress’s family, and Mum put her foot down.
Only later, when trying to compose a family tree, did I realize that all the kids from the other family were older than me.

Story 10: 

My mother got herself and my dad into six figures of credit card debt. We found out when my dad tried to cosign my college loan. He got a call at work from a credit bureau asking why he ever thought he could cosign a huge loan with tens of thousands of dollars in unpaid bills.

I will never let anyone handle my finances but me.

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Story 12: 

I used to spend the whole summer break with my aunt, uncle, and cousin (a child from his previous marriage), going months without seeing my mom. Come to find out, those were just trial runs to adopt me because they couldn’t have a child of their own.

Story 13:

My wife always picks up our son from kindergarten. Today, she was sick, so I went instead. The teacher asked, “Where is Timmy’s dad today?” I was confused.
Then, a man rushed in. She pointed at him: “There he is.” The man looked into my eyes and said, “It’s finally time for you to know!” My stomach dropped. I had never seen this guy before in my life.

At first, I assumed it was just a misunderstanding. But when my son saw him, he started to smile at him and said, “Hi, Uncle Jerry!” The man turned back to me and said, “Go ask your wife.”

I rushed home and confronted her. She broke down in tears and confessed. She had been planning to leave me for a year. She had met this man and called him “the love of her life.” Our relationship hadn’t been great this past year, but I never imagined she had already moved on.

Now it made sense—why she refused to work on our marriage, why she avoided couples therapy.

Today, my whole world shattered. But deep down, I know moving on is the only choice. I’m sure time will heal this wound. But right now, I’m still in sh0ck.